Posted by pornstar under sex on Thursday Mar 11, 2010
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Hey ryanri123,
My guess is that even though you love your girlfriend, and this is something you feel like you really want to do, that you also realize that this is a HUGE step to take. Even when you use condoms or birth control, there is a still a risk of things like pregnancy and STDs. It is perfectly logical to be aware of that in the back of your mind. You probably know that not having sex is the only 100% sure way to prevent pregnancy and STDs…so as much as you feel like you want to, there is still some hesitation.
The only person who can tell you why your girlfriend is saying (or writing) the things that she says is your girlfriend. These are the things that you need to discuss with her. If you are thinking about having sex with a person, you should be able to talk to that person about anything.
I hope this is helpful!
Posted by pornstar under sex on Tuesday Mar 2, 2010
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Hi kthnxbai,
There’s no one right answer for what decisions you should make in your life. It’s a really personal thing to figure out what is going to feel best for you. One thing to consider is that no matter who you’re choosing to partner with, if you’re choosing to have partnered sex, you want to make sure that you’re staying safe from things like unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.
Does this guy’s girlfriend know that he’s said it’s OK that he have sex outside of their relationship? Certainly some couples decide that non-monogamy (having relationships with more than one person, whether they are emotional, physical, sexual, etc) is OK, but if he is going behind his girlfriend’s back to have sex you may want to ask yourself if that feels like someone you want to be involved with. If he’s not being honest with another partner, do you trust him to be honest with you?
If you do opt to have sex with him, you may want to strongly consider using a barrier method like condoms and/or dental dams for all sexual contact. The two of you may want to discuss sexual safety, including STD testing, if you are going to do anything together. Even if he has used protection with all of his other partners (which may or may not be the case), getting screened for STDs by a medical provider can help detect any issues and keep you as healthy as possible.
It’s ultimately up to you to decide what, with your own values, feels like the right choice. Just be sure that you’re taking care of yourself in the situation, and protecting yourself!
